Couples Therapy

Couples Therapy in Federal Way, WA

You keep having the same fight. Let's find out what it's really about.

Conflict isn't the problem — it's usually a signal. Together, we'll slow down the pattern enough to see what's underneath it, and build a way back to each other.

Left on its own, this pattern rarely fades. It tends to get louder, or the silence after it gets longer — and the longer it runs, the harder it is to find your way back to each other. A free 15-minute consultation is a low-pressure first step.

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Who this is for

  • Engaged or newly married couples building a foundation
  • Long-term partners who feel disconnected
  • Couples stuck in repeating conflict patterns
  • Partners navigating a major transition or breach of trust together

What we work through

  • Communication that turns into shutdown or escalation
  • Recurring conflict that never quite resolves
  • Emotional distance and feeling like roommates
  • Intimacy and connection
  • Parenting differences
  • Rebuilding trust

How I Help

A Gottman Method couples therapist serving Federal Way, Tacoma & Seattle

I draw on the Gottman Method to help you understand your conflict patterns and rebuild friendship and trust, and on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to get underneath the argument to the attachment fears driving it — the "why" behind the "what." Together, these give us both a map of what's going wrong and a path to something better.

Expected Outcomes

  • Understanding your specific conflict cycle — and how to interrupt it
  • Communication that feels safer, even during disagreement
  • A renewed sense of friendship and partnership
  • Practical tools you can use long after therapy ends

Couples FAQ

Common questions from couples

Do both partners need to be fully on board to start? +

It helps, but it's not required to begin. Some couples start with one partner more hesitant, and that's something we can work with in the first session.

Will you take sides? +

No. My role isn't to decide who's right — it's to help both of you feel heard and to understand the pattern between you. I'm working for the relationship, not for one partner against the other.

What if we're already separated? +

That's still a meaningful time to begin. Some couples use this space to explore the possibility of reconciliation, while others find it helps them navigate the separation itself with more clarity and less conflict — especially when children are involved. We can figure out together what's most useful for where you are.

How often do we meet? +

Most couples start weekly, especially early on, then adjust the pace as things stabilize.

How much does couples therapy cost? +

Sessions are $150 per 50-minute session. I'm an out-of-network provider and provide a monthly superbill you can submit to your insurance for possible reimbursement — see fees and insurance.

Do you offer couples therapy online in Washington? +

Yes. I meet with couples in person at my Federal Way office and can serve couples throughout Washington State via telehealth. See location and session options.

Is premarital counseling different from couples therapy? +

They overlap, but premarital counseling is designed for engaged couples and uses the PREPARE/ENRICH assessment to build skills and surface differences before the wedding. If you're engaged, see premarital counseling in Federal Way.

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